Grumpy Mens Club

Feeling a bit grumpy? Good. You’re not alone – and you’re exactly who we’re looking for.

Tucked away in the heart of Hastings, nestled inside the welcoming walls of The Grumpy Cook café, something special is brewing – and we’re not just talking about the coffee. Every second Wednesday, a small but mighty community of local men gather for what’s quickly becoming a staple in the mental health and wellbeing calendar: The Grumpy Men’s Club.

More than just a catchy name, the Grumpy Men’s Club offers a genuine space for men of all ages to connect, unwind, and simply be. Whether you’re coming along for a full breakfast, a hot drink, or just the company, the vibe is relaxed, friendly, and free of judgement.

There’s no pressure to talk – but plenty of opportunity to do so. Some conversations are deep. Some are silly. And some are about absolutely nothing at all. And that’s the point: sometimes, just showing up and being around other men who “get it” is enough.